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Thursday, March 11, 2010

Be aware there in music in there

Be aware there in music in there

This summer there will be a special occasion for the family. My eldest brother will get marred. Unfortunately, I cannot attend the wedding, due to my busyness life as postgraduate student and poor economical condition of me. Therefore, I cannot fly from Canada to Saudi Arabia. I will set and see what is going on through my sisters' mouth, who is going to the wedding and who is not, blah, blah, blah. There is huge arguments down the road every time when some one in the family getting married. People will be divided in three groups: the first one, the people whose want to attend the event, dance, and enjoy DJ, because they said, "this is the way wedding day should be, for having fun. The other group totally opposed with the first group, they think there should not be music in the wedding due to their understanding of Islam. They argue that goes against Islam or their right to be in a highest level of Islam. The last one, will attend the event dance, have fun, and congrats the bride and the groom families and does not matter what is run in there whether, music or Islamic stuff (I do not know what is the name in English). Interestingly, I do not remember anybody -- almost five years ago - saying that she will not be able to attend the wedding day because she doesn't listen to music! I really respect any one choice to listen to music or not but come on! is our ancestors less Muslims than us?! I think its all about our understanding of Islam. Islam it is not a bunch of free spiritual orders. So, go and have fun dance because it's wedding not funeral.

9 comments:

HishMaj said...

That is very sad to hear that you wont be able to make it for your brother's wedding. But inshallah, everything is for the good and hope that the three groups of people celebrate it together without any differences.

Best wishes to your brother and your family.

Daughter of Arabia said...

Thanks HishMaj for you comment appreciate that and have a good time.

Daughter of Arabia said...

Thanks HishMaj for you comment appreciate that and have a good time.

Daughter of Arabia said...

Thanks HishMaj for you comment appreciate that and have a good time.

Daughter of Arabia said...

Thanks HishMaj for you comment appreciate that and have a good time.

Daughter of Arabia said...

Thanks HishMaj for you comment appreciate that and have a good time.

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Anonymous said...

is this a segregated wedding? because you and I both know that music and dance involving men and women is haraam

Anonymous said...

Anonymous what do you think sure its separated wedding cuz its in Saudi Arabia.

Daughter Of Arabia